Firstly, find out about the details and consequences of maintenance proceedings.
Seek advice from a lawyer.
If you cannot afford the costs of the advice, you can apply for counselling assistance at the legal application office of the local court.
Out-of-court settlement
As a first step, the advising lawyer will try to reach an out-of-court settlement between you and your parents.
He or she will therefore ask your parents to provide information about their income.
Once this has been done, the parents or the parent liable for maintenance will receive a request for payment.
Court proceedings
If the out-of-court settlement fails, you must apply to the court through a solicitor to have maintenance determined.
The court will first set a conciliation hearing. All parties involved will have the opportunity to present their arguments at this hearing. The purpose of the conciliation hearing is to reach an agreement (settlement).
If no agreement is reached, the court will declare the conciliation hearing a failure.
The factual and legal situation is discussed in an early first hearing (usually) immediately following this.
If it is necessary to take evidence, the court usually schedules a further hearing. Throughout the proceedings, the court endeavours to reach an agreement between the parties involved.
At the end of the proceedings, the court makes a decision on the maintenance obligation.
At the end of the proceedings, the court also decides who has to pay the costs of the proceedings.